Thursday, May 13, 2010

Is all forms of sex allowed during marriage?

Or are there practices that are still off limits





My friend says that ';Oral sex'' is deeply frowned upon by the Church - Was that in the bible..





Also ''To spill ones seed'' is confusing because contraception is allowed by The Anglican and JW church.. So sex for fun is allowed in Anglican and JW?Is all forms of sex allowed during marriage?
It is in my marriage.Is all forms of sex allowed during marriage?
Ok, from a (Christian) theological point of view, the sole purpose of sex is to procreate. The reason that ';recreational'; forms of sex are frowned upon is that they often cause problems, both emotional and physical, and serve no purpose other than self gratification. In other words, you are not serving God by having sex for your own desires. Recreational forms of sex within a marriage are not (in general) forbidden, but they are considered unnecessary. (Some denominations are much stricter than others.)


Contraception is allowed by some churches not because recreational sex is allowed, but because these churches recognizes that families are a huge responsibility and allow for some planning to occur.


';To spill ones seed'; is not confusing at all. It is a reference to masturbation. At one time, it was thought that men had a limited number of sperm and that ';wasting it'; through masturbation, instead of using it for it's intended purpose of creating life, was an affront to God and His plan. It has nothing to do with contraception at all.
Individuals adhere to the doctrines of their own religious beliefs to varying degrees. To strictly follow laws that govern sex and were established when the population of the world was 10, is unreasonable. However, many people believe that religious law is as crucial as a civil law and should be abided by. I find this absurd.
What goes in the bedroom is between you and your husband, if you want to try something and be a little adventurous, why should you worry what God might think? - With all the suffering going on in the world, millions of starving kids etc... i'm sure he wouldn't be too upset with whatever you got on with in the privacy of your home ... Just go for it, its great fun!






No one can claim they know what your friend is implying here. Sex between a man %26amp; a woman SHOULD be fun and what they deem FUN to be is between THEM and GOd in my opinion. No one has any RIGHT to claim otherwise or try to judge another in this way. Very ridiculous....
I'm not sure how oral sex, or really any kind of consented sex act between two committed marriage partners is wrong or unchristian. It seems to me it's about someone's own hangups and not doctrine.












I wondered about this too.





then a couple of guys came to my school to talk about sex to us. during the q and a time he told us that oral sex was okay as long as it was done within marriage.
sex isnt allowed in all





the bible reads





';book of ronald regan';


when 1 wants a child one must go to chruch and beg for forgivnes





im catolic
Rape and sadistic acts would not be allowed.
if its between a husband and wife, and both sides agree to how ever they want sex it is alright.
sure, its all good

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