Which one of these makes most sense to you about marriage?

1. ';you should not marry someone that you can live with; but someone that you cannot live without';





2. ';you should marry the best person among those who would accept you';





3. ';you should not marry a perfect person; but a person that is perfect for you';





4. ';you should keep both eyes open before marriage. After marriage, you should close one eye and open the other';


(u should be picky to select the right person, but once you got married, you should forget about her/his weakness)





5. When selecting a partner, a girl should try to use more mind, a guy should try using more heart.Which one of these makes most sense to you about marriage?
4... Marriage isn't always perfect and neither are people.





If you are picky in the start and find someone who you gel nicely with...then look more so at their good than bad side when it comes to the little flaws.





Sometimes you gotta let those little imperfections slip and just take the other for who they are. Not meaning if they are a liar and a cheat forget about it, but little mistakes should be looked past.





The others seem to be more about the magic of marriage. I think that one shows both sides. Which one of these makes most sense to you about marriage?
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1 is impossible, you may HAVE to live without the person you want to be with.





2 sounds like you have low self esteem and won't be happy.





4 doesn't sound quite right either





5 makes no sense.
3. ';you should not marry a perfect person; but a person that is perfect for you';



## 3 and 4 make most sense to me.
#4, seems most logical to me.
number 1
number 3
1. I've lived with a couple of men before, but the one I'm with now is the only one I could never live without.





:)
It was tough to decide...


until I saw answer #5 (#2 comes in second for me;)
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well... honestly.. i dont think any of them make much sense..


the first one was .. funny, silly and some what didnt make sense...


umm, dont marry a person you can live with... but marry one whom you cannot live without? so... if you live with that person, you are actually doing the wrong thing? umm... **thinking**


...2. so you find this amazing out of this world guy who is honestly too good to be even true... **:)..sure** ... and wait him to accept you.. or if all fails, beg... umm **thinking**


3.so.. prince charming comes along.. but you have to ignore him because he's... umm.. let me think.. **oh yeah... he's perfect**


...but noooooooo.. wait!! dont marry him... marry the guy who you like because he's this big time stud... all macho and rugged and best yet, your folks hateeeee him... **still thinking**


4... umm.. this one needed an optometrists yes or no just to get married... umm.. what if they **both the girl and ther guy** dont have medical coverage?? :) **thinking.. again... **


5... so the girl should use her brains because maybe she has been fooled one to many times using her heart.... and guys, well, they are too clever to fall for that so they have give their little cookie some rest.. umm... :)





okay.. sorry if i offended anyone here.. but they didnt make any sense to me....





my parents always told me to marry a person who made me better in my faith, my worldly affairs, and my hereafter... and since no one is ';p-e-r-f-e-c-t';... you bend a bit and communicate more and keep it simple.





:).