Is marriage really worth it when one has many goals to accomplish that it might hold me back?

because I keep hearing rumors that most marriages end up making one lose freedom to do anything, really, Your thoughts.Is marriage really worth it when one has many goals to accomplish that it might hold me back?
dido all the above.





A marriage is a most incredible dance. It will work best if your partner is a good dancer. Meaning you both work well together. There are not a lot of man out there who are good at doing this.


Now, the problem is keeping two totally separate and individual lives going. Somewhere in there you two will have to create a third entity, that is the commonality of the two of you. Both of you will have to invest heavily in this part of the marriage. The part were the two of you are one and where one is willing to give up a lot for the other, not because s/he has to but because it is worth it.





All that said, this changes 100% if there is children. In my mind at this time, the children become priority 1. No as a financial, ego or achivement investment but as a building of a great human being.





May God always bless you.Is marriage really worth it when one has many goals to accomplish that it might hold me back?
That depends on your marriage. If you have an understanding going in regarding individual and collective goals there shouldn't be a problem. The problems arise when two people aren't able to communicate their needs so instead they go about trying to be what they think the other person wants. As soon as they achieve marriage, the true colors start to show. As long as you're open from the start, marriage should help you reach your goals because you have a partner...not hinder you.
marriage is worth it


if you love the guy/girl


and they respect you enough so you can continue your dreams


but you have to be realistic marriage is between 2 peps and it what both of you want


its not that your restricted its more that you are married


and goals change


no matter your freedom of choice should not change if your partener respects you enough as you respect them
Its wise to accomplish a career and other goals before marriage, because once marriage you need to be ready to settle down and put your priorities on the person you married. If that person can't be your priority in life, then you are not ready to be married.
If you choose someone who shares your goals or has compatible goals then no, it won't hold you back.





If you choose someone who doesn't share your goals or has incompatible goals then yes, it will hold you back.





Choose your mate wisely or don't choose at all.
Marriage shouldn't hamper your goals unless they involve promiscuous sex. For some, even those goals aren't hampered.
Nops, not if one partner are forced to give up dreams and goals for helping the other partner to fullfil.
';A women needs a man, like a fish needs a bicycle when she's trying to throw her arms around the world.';
If you are going into a good marriage, you get so much more than you give up.
My marriage has never held me back, if anything it has made things easier. That is just me though.
didnt for me.. really depends on who you marry*
in ours it's a give and take - I give he takes.
i lost myself,my kids lost allot don't do it