How to add a little spice to marriage?

okay long story short I am a mom of three hellions and are freinds are staying with us for the time being I have no energy for anything and when he trys I just don't want it I am to tired or stressed or something is always wrong help please?How to add a little spice to marriage?
I wrote an article with this title... try some of the things and I agree with the poster above (i gave thumbs up) that the people staying with you should chip in some time taking kids to park or movies.





Also people staying with you can be very stressful.. make sure you are divvying up chores and stuff and not being taken advantage of. Emotinally that can wear thin.How to add a little spice to marriage?
Why don't you get a baby sitter and go out once a week? You two need your alone time too whether you're being intimate or just having an adult conversation.





Talk to your friends, they're staying at your house anyways..so why not ask them if they can watch the kids for a night while you and your husband go out?





If you have relative close by, ask if they can stay there over night once in a while..or better yet..talk to another mother you may know with multiples and offer to trade off sleep overs. People are more willing to trade off on sleep overs cause they know they're going to get their chance to have alone time too.
You are doing your friends a huge favor, so ask them to take the kids to a nearby place/park for 1-2 hours on weekend mornings. And then tell him to start with a nice long full body massage for YOU. Once you are relaxed, you will want him to touch you in that special way.





Freezing a man out of his bed is a very, very risky thing to do. He quickly thinks that you don't care about HIM. This is not about sex - anyone can masturbate and get release in about 5 minutes, this is about your man feeling that you love him enough to want to please HIM.





If he is a decent husband then you need to be a good wife.





When sex is good it is 10 percent of the relationship, when it is bad/not happening it becomes 90 percent of the relationship.
honnie, i say suck it up and put out. let him massage you first or something to get your blood flowing, because if you keep using being tired as an excuse, even though you are, it will wear him out. he still wants your milf *** three kids later- give him some. thats a good man. ;)


your probably not going to get enough sleep with the kids around anyhow, so why not have a good excuse for the bags under your eyes. plus, sex relieves so much stress.
I need some details. How long has this been? What's the significance of the friends being there? If you're not depressed. Then try having a glass of wine, or maybe a pain pill. It's bad advice I know, but if you need to unwind go for it, just don't go crazy. Don't swing with the friends. Try fantasizing about your husband if you get a free minute. It will set your mood
Go buy a new outfit and wig; something that makes you feel sexy. Let your friends watch the kids. Invite your husband on a date. Go to the movies, bowling, or whatever you all enjoy. Next go out to dinner and have a drink or two. Then go rent a hotel/motel room.
I would say it sounds like you need some time away. try your hardest to get away for a day do something for you, give yourself some time alone away from the family it will make you want to be around your husband
Um.....is he .....um....doing it right? Like are you getting as much out of it as he is? If you aren't climaxing then that might be your problem. Figure out a way to tell him you need to get yours too!
Midgets.
Buy more pepper and pour it in your bed.
Just be glad he still wants you after 3 kids.
you need to try harder....get more sleep....take a shower......go to bed earlier.











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