Thursday, May 13, 2010

Why would someone want to BAN gay marriage?

I'm not gay--but if we're all equal, I don't understand this concept. If everyone is created equal, then why aren't equal rights distributed? Please help me understand the logic in people who do not support gays.Why would someone want to BAN gay marriage?
Because those people are so close minded,it's unbelievable. I am not gay either; just stating the facts.Why would someone want to BAN gay marriage?
Heh the leading point by Prop 8 supporters was to protect the children. Funny hypocrisy is that those who are gay or have gay parents will be discriminated against even more! Speaking as a gay 13 year old I can see how religious bigots only want to protect the straight kids.

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Do you believe that mentally disabled people are equal to everyone else? Do you think that they should enjoy the same rights? Some people don't think so. That is why some people do not think they should be married or have children. The same logic can apply to gays. Some people think gays are genetically defected.





There are also people believe that gay couples should enjoy the same rights as a married couple under Civil Union. However, they don't think the union between man/man or woman/woman is exactly the same as the union between man/woman; therefore, the union should not be called a marriage.





Another reason that some people are against legalizing gay marriage is the fear that gay activists will push to add gay marriage or gay family topics into school textbooks. They don't want their young children to be exposed to gay related topics.





As you can see, it is not as simple as ';we're all equal, therefore...';
I'm not sure why Gay people are not giving the same rights as murders or rapist. If you murder someone and go to prison do they take away your right to marry? No. So how dare they even think about prohibiting people who have done nothing wrong rights to marry. It is ridiculous. More states should go along with California so we can stop this prejudice.





[RYE - STAR] is completely correct. If your going to go on about how gay marriage is wrong I suggest you have a nice long conversation with yourself about all the things you do in the Bible that are wrong. You cannot pick one thing and ignore the others. People have no excuse for the rest of the sins in the Bible, they do it on a daily basis and don't think twice to acknowledge it. The point is the Bible is a very very very old book and times are different. If you believe everything in the Bible then act accordingly, don't pick gay marriage and say how wrong it is and continue to do everything else wrong.
Well, I have absolutely nothing against gay marriage, it's life, and if you love someone of the same sex, then just leave them alone.


People who would try to badn gay marriage, if they think it is porbably discriminable because we are supposed to be married like boy and girl. Also, i dont why, but some people are AFRAID or gay marriage. It's just the way they are, like gayphobic.


And some people just want to ban it because they dont like the way it sounds or the way the couple looks like. Or how their minds think the ';wrong way'; on how they do it.


Whcih is very dumb of them because it's none of their business, and they should live their life their way, and leave them to their lives.


But on the bright side, gay people are just great, like gay men, they can be closer to you then a girl's own best friend, because they understand more about them, because thats their nature.


People shouldnt have problems with gay marriage. (:


thats my opinion
I tell you what. When you find a LOGICAL answer to that question, then please let me know.





COUNTER TO ARGUMENT: Marriage is between a man and a woman? Who says? The constitution does not say that. Does God say it? Marriage is NOT a religious institution. Atheists get married and here in the US we can practice whatever religion we want and there are religions that accept homosexuality. Using religion as an argument is invalid.





COUNTER TO ARGUMENT: Pedophilia is irrelevent to homosexuality. Pedophiles have been successfully treated and pedophilia is a mental disorder: http://www.minddisorders.com/Ob-Ps/Pedop鈥?/a>





Whereas homosexuality is not a mental disorder and needs no cure (I have here the American Psychological Association cited, but there are about 15 other ones): http://www.apahelpcenter.org/articles/ar鈥?/a>





Homosexuals have attempted ';treatment';, but reparative therapy represses homosexuality (it does not successfully reverse it): http://www.truthwinsout.org/what-the-exp鈥?/a>





Reparative therapy does not reverse homosexuality. Bisexuals and heterosexuals who think they are gay will benefit from reparative therapy (though not all bisexuals) because the homosexual desires will be repressed and they may concentrate on their heterosexuality or heterosexual side, but homosexuals will not benefit from it, they will become sorta like asexual; they won't ';act out'; on their gay feelings but the feelings will always be there and won't go away and feelings for the opposite sex will not come into place. Those homosexuals may form heterosexual relationships, but they all too often leave them after a few years.





COUNTER TO ARGUMENT: Why do people insist on using Leviticus to condemn homosexuality?





Leviticus 26:14-16 ';If you do not obey me and do not carry out ALL of these commandments (referring to ALL the Levitical Laws), if instead, you reject my statutes, and if your soul abhors my ordinances so as not to carry out all my commandments, I, in turn, will do this to you.


(In other words, break ONE levitical law, and you have broken them all)





Leviticus 19:27 ';you shall not round off the side-growth of your heads, nor harm the edges of your beard.';


(In other words, getting haircuts are sinful)





Leviticus 19:19 ';Ye shall keep my statutes. Thou shalt not let thy cattle gender with a diverse kind: thou shalt not sow thy field with mingled seed: neither shall a garment mingled of linen and woollen come upon thee.';


(In other words, wearing clothing made of 2 different material is sinful)





Leviticus 18:22 ';You shall not lie with a man as with a woman, it is a detestable act.


(This is where homosexuality is supposedly said to be sinful)





(Hey I didn't write it; the man upstairs did)





The bible has been mistranslated or taken out of context when it comes to homosexuality: http://www.jlarue.com/wtbs.html





COUNTER TO ARGUMENT: Marriage is for creating families? Then I think that any straight couple who can't have children, or who doesn't want children, should not be allowed to get married.





COUNTER TO ARGUMENT: Gay marriage would not be taught in public schools to quote on quote ';impressionable'; children. If it will be taught AT ALL, then it would be in history classrooms. The case where a first grade class went to their teacher's wedding has been taken out of context. It was a parent who made the suggestion for the field trip and the teacher did not make any mention to the class about getting married to another woman. She simply said she was ';getting married';. The parents knew the truth, yet let their kids go. It was a parents suggestion, all the parents knew it was a lesbian wedding, and yet if they wanted to keep their kids from it, they could simply not let them go.





Many of them consider it ridiculous how so many homophobes have twisted it to pretty much say, ';she forced the kids to go to a lesbian wedding';.





The arguments are getting a little psychotic now.
what is with all of the ignorant gay rights activists who post their ideas everywhere??


you say that us religious people are ignorant?


i have not read one plausible reason as to why homosexuals should be allowed to marry.


reasons why homosexuality is wrong///why marriage is for man/woman? :


1 ) if everyone was gay, then humanity would cease to exist.


[excluding modern science, which CAN create test babies.


cuz you know what - science can do A LOT of things...many of


which are both morally/biologically horrible]


Pre-21st century, if you had homosexual parents, chances are


you weren't going to be born. puzzle pieces have to fit.]


2 ) RYE-STAR knows NOTHING. marriage IS a religious institution.


(although the word is not used in the Bible - marriage is latin, Bible is Hebrew and such)


maybe there's a reason as to why priests/pastors hold the


ceremony? and it is ALSO for a man and a woman.


the Bible makes countless references to that of a man being


with a woman. (never man/man or woman/womam) ex :


'; ' For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' ... 'therefore what God has created, let man not separate .' ';


3 ) Gay marriage, if passed, WILL be taught to children.


The gov. is very effective in creating an equal learning environment. religion for example - if a teacher needs to present something about a certain religion, he/she MUST also present various other religions. eg, if a correct way marriage is shown, then a homosexual marriage will be shown.


and Sex Education class will be COMPLETELY different...talk about not forcing homosexual concepts on students. They already are being taught about them and its not even legal yet!


4) Leviticus 18:22 ';You shall not lie with a man as with a woman, it is a detestable act.


There is nothing ';supposedly'; said about this verse. its in black and white rye-star. don't play dumb


of course there are some dated Leviticus laws. The Bible also states that holy men should the highest robes and such (like the pope in a way) obviously very few dress like- that's because times have changed, and new ways of creating clothing have come up. the problem with homosexuality still exists though, because nothing can prove it to be ok, or out-dated.


mixing seed and such is needed in today's world, and the future.


we need as much food as we can get- and i don't think God would disagree on that. but nothing beneficial can come from allowing homosexuals to announce themselves into society and expect to have opportunities received from religion that go directly against what said religion states.


4 ) best argument : Do you know how many law suits will come about because pastors won't wed to homosexuals?


think about it - i don't want to have to write everything


Because guess what...no moral pastor will. but then he would be breaking the law?!?! i see disastor
Because supposedly the bible says it is wrong and when you have all these bible pushers in office, and them thinking this is the way we are suppose to live, by this book, then you have people criticizing others for the way they live there life. This will never end until people learn that you dont have to have be a religious person to have good morals. An I'm not gay either but I am a supporter of everyone has there own life to live and people do not need someone there to think your doing wrong by living your life.
Lev. 18:22, ';You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination.';


Lev. 20:13, ';If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them.';


1 Cor. 6:9-10, ';Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals1, 10nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God.';





I didn't write this stuff, the man upstairs did though. These are morals laws.
Rich perverted ******* want to ban anything that they do. Lot's of rich politicians snort coke, snuggle up with a prossy, or even snuggle up with the same sex. They want to control you but do whatever they like. Politicians are the filthiest garbage roaming around, and their ';God'; will have their *** for it.
my personal view is that marriage is religious, and the decision on who gets married or not should be up to the head of each religion, and not the government
Possibly because if us gays were allowed to marry, then straight homophobic people -- by which I'm not trying to imply that all or most straight people are homophobic -- could no longer taunt us about it. Just a thought.
Marriage is a contract between a man and a woman to have a family. Gay men can marry gay women any time they want, what could be more fair?
People who don't support Gays are simply stupid. Constitution Clearly Says, ';All Men are Created Equal';, therefore this should also apply to Gays. People just use the dumb exuse, ';ITS AGAINST THE CHURCH!';
they are confused, afraid, close-minded
ignorance
Sarah Palin is one of em.
because ignorant people believe in a fake book written a long time ago.
well if you live in the bible belt it has to do with religion. or so they say?
Equality has nothing to do with it. I don't want impressionable children taught that same sex marriage is normal and equal to heterosexual marriage. It isn't. The entire purpose of marriage is to create a family through the normal and healthy activity of sexual relations between one man and one woman. This is good old fashioned morality. It is old fashioned because it has worked for thousands and the world is where it is today because of that belief. If the parents of gays were gay they would never have born in the first place.
YES ON 8!!!!!!!

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