Why cant people be faithful in marriage/relationships anymore?

Why?Why cant people be faithful in marriage/relationships anymore?
cuz life to short..Why cant people be faithful in marriage/relationships anymore?
Some still are faithful.





They need support in a larger community to get through the rough times when they are liable to break up. If their relatives and friends and church or religion support them in being true to each other, and getting through hard times, then I think it influences them not to throw their partner away or betray them. Every time I've seen a ';cheat'; situation, someone close, a sneaky supposed 'friend', suggested it when the person was down or feeling unappreciated.
its usually that they have a desire to, and the opportunity. so many people out there make themselves available to the married person, and if there is any problem within the marriage some people will leave the marriage because they are trying to Escape and go on to where they really believe that they will find happiness. a person with a low self worth will cheat because the cheating makes them feel wanted and loved in the beginning. the new person will stroke their ego's, give them anything they want and make them think that they don't love the spouse anymore, in the beginning. just too many people willing to come between a man and wife, the laws don't protect the married person anymore, too many no fault divorce states, where u could do whatever and still end up with half the as setts.
What do you mean ';anymore';? People have been having affairs since the beginning of time. Just read your history - how many people had mistresses, illegitimate children, etc. It's not anything new - it's just now people don't just sit by and accept infidelity by their partner and are independent enough to file for divorce. Even a century ago, very few women worked or had money of their own so they had to stay with a cheater or they would have had no place to live, no food on the table, and no money to support their children
Because these days people are getting married for the wrong reasons. It used to be to start a family, which both partners had the common goal of get married have kids support each other as a family is more efficient. Now people get married simply because 2 people love each other. So when things get tough, people get older, uglier, bitter towards each other, there is no reason to stay together. There is less effort to fix things. Also in this day in age women dont have to rely on a man to pay the bills she can do that on her own, so she wont have to put up with so much crap.





Arranged marriages have higher success rates these days because 1. divorce is frowned upon 2. the soul purpose of getting married is to start a family 3. the women are more domesticated
Why can't people be honest and trustworthy? It is the same thing. People always want what they can't have so to speak. The grass always looks greener on the other side. The morals of society are in the toilet. I bet 80% of all marriages today are not truly happy. One spouse or another has thought about or actually cheated. People tell complete strangers their problems but will not talk to the person they are living with. Do we set ourselves up to be hurt? Do we trust people too willing? Are we blinded by love and not see people for what they really are? Yes. We need to wake up. We need to stop condoning


and excusing infidelity, lying, and abuse. When it will be wrong, unaccepted by society, and punishable with consequences that are severe enough to deter (like Mrs. Bobbitt did) perhaps relationships will change. Otherwise, look for more unfaithful relationships in the future.
Media plays a big part,lack of morals and poor parenting,and selfishness people wanting what someone elses have or having there cake and eating it


but the many people out there who do not cheat i never cheated but i suspect my ex husband did but i believe two wrong do not make it right,


If sex was for love and not just seen as fun to share with anyone it help to
Gosh I would love the answer to this !! Its so shocking !! honestly what goes on behind closed doors eh !





One married guy friend with a beautiful family once made advances on me and have a friend in a serious relationship of a few years who also sees other people quietly!





I guess they like the thrill, are bored and just want a change for a moment!
LOW SELF ESTEEM; ITS NOT ABOUT CHEATING; ITS NOT ABOUT SEX; ITS ABOUT PEACE INSIDE; A LIE IS A LIE WHETHER EXCUTED VIZ PHYSICAL LIASON, MISSIVES, OR THROUGH THE INTERNET. CHEATING IS A SELF-DECEPTION (BUT THE QUESTION MAY BE AT THIS POINT, IS IT A NECCESSARY DECEPTION FOR OUR MENTAL AND PHYSICAL WELL-BEING?) MEDITATE ON THIS FOR SOME TIME AND KNOW THAT ANSWER IS ALREADY INSIDE YOU.
Some people do it for different reasons.Whatever the reason,it's never an excuse.Men cheat for many reasons that has nothing to do with anything,women cheat for emotional reasons.
Marriage is obsolete! The only person who has a right to say who they sleep with ..is the person who is giving it away.





We are not owned by anyone!
I ask myself the same question all the time. I mean, you promised you would so why would you do it? Horrible horrible people
There are so many reasons for someone to be unfaithful. It's a sad and hurtful situation no matter what.
Becaus cheating is fun.
They can. And they do. I've never cheated, for instance.
that's juts the way our world of people work