Before you got Married what was your idea of marriage?

If you are now married what is the difference between your marriage and current marriage because I believe most girls dream of the wedding but not what it takes to make a marriage work.Before you got Married what was your idea of marriage?
Well, because I didn't go into marriage all Starry eyed, its been better than I thought it would be.


Of course, God is the center of our marriage, so that is the real reason why.








';DQ'; you made me sad reading that.....Before you got Married what was your idea of marriage?
Well, I really had no concept of what marriage would be like. I just knew I wanted her. I've learned that the more I put into it the more I get out.
I tried my best gave it my all and she didn't. Daamm! Shawyen I'll cook for you or with you, I'll take the kids to the park and when they get home they'll be too tired to talk. 5 min yeah right, you'll need more than 5 min just to catch your breath.
I really didn't have any expectations except that we would put each other first and build a family and life together. I was raised in a home with a mom and a dad so I knew there was ups and down and what it takes to make it work but both people hearts have to be in it. I found what I was looking for in my hubby.
I have never been married but my idea of a wonderful marriage is living with someone that shares your interests and growing with this person as you experience life together.





But, I am not really sure what it takes to make a marriage work... I see so many marriages crumbling these days. In fact, I know about half end up in divorces. So I am skeptical. I think its so prevalent because people change and maybe they end up disliking one another. So I guess similar interests, communication, trust, sharing and affection is what will make a marriage work.
No expectations as I am from humble beginnings. Anything that I got was more than I had. Divorced now, but grateful that I had the opportunity to have something great once.
That she wouldn't be as fat and ugly as she is now.
Well we both knew that marriage would take work. We have our days and our moments, but something most people don't realize is that love or loving someone is a choice that you make everyday. I always dreamed of the wedding first but also knew that marriage means for life, it takes commitment, hard work, and sacrifice. We still have a lot to learn, but are loving every moment of it! I'm 20 and he's 24, which is young for now a days but we wouldn't have it any other way!
arguing, fighting, lack of foreplay and good sex, cheating, losing half of all your ****.
Everyone thinks about the wedding the big day but not many people stick around after all the honeymoon is over and the hard work of keeping a marriage strong and going. Why do you think we have the highest divorce rates in history too many lazy people that only get married to get divorced that is what is pathetic.





ALL I CAN SAY IS IF YOURT THINKING OF MARRIAGE DO IT FOR LOVE AND REMEMBERING THAT IT IS SUPPOSE TO BE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. THAT WORKING THROUGH EVERYTHING IS A MUST EXCEPT INFEDELITY THAT IS WHERE I SAY DIVORCE THE SCUM BE IT THE HUSBAND OR THE WIFE ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER.
We lived together (such sinners!) so I thought it would be the same. Boy was I wrong! Oh well.
im not married
Idea of marriage.... coming home to a wonderful husband. Cooking dinner together. Play with kids together. Cuddling and watching TV. Going out having a blast with eachother. Of course the love making would be awsome.





Reality.... Coming home to a house hold of screaming kids. You cooking dinner while you better half sits on his butt watching tv or playing on the computer. You do go out and have a so so time. Love making is more like 5 minutes and he's done while you are sitting there thinking it's not even worth it. Of course, everyone's deal is different.
On the beach as the sun sets! ha. Naive
Before marriage, I never dreamed about my ideal, or dream wedding. I just wasn't that type of girl. What I dreamed about was what our house looked like. I actually imagined living in an apartment for a long time, before making a joint decision in putting a down payment on a small three bedroom house. I also imagined a pregnancy, and dumb arguments between my husband and I over the names we considered for the baby. I also thought, thanks to sitcoms and stand up comedy, that marriage would be somewhat sexless, at least by our mid-thirties because we were too tired from work and kids.





Essentially, I imagined my parents' marriage. I don't think I was too far off.

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