I want to leave my husband cause im not happy but im afraid of starting all over, starting a new life wit sum1 else, going through it all again, Wat should I do?Wat should i do about my failing marriage?
Find out what is making you unhappy, and attack the root cause of the problem.
Statistically you are going to make the same mistake over and over again, until you find what the actual problem , you will most likely find you fall for the same type of guy over and over again.
Go and get some professional help, counseling, and try to get at the root issue, as it may not be him that is the problem.Wat should i do about my failing marriage?
why are you unhappy? have you done everything in your power to lift your marriage out of the ditch? marriage counseling? surely there must have been a ';fire'; when you guys became hitched....what have you done to rekindle that fire? at one point in your life you decided that this would be the person i want to grow old with...are you really that unhappy?
if you really were unhappy and wanted to start a new life, you would have already. i think there could still be something there. I would suggest talking to your husband. Put it right out there on the table and go from there. Besides, how do you know you will be able to find someone else. Obviously he must love you for you.
First off,i would check my own head.Why am i not happy,is it me or my husband.Wanting too leave because of happiness,pretty drastic.More to life %26amp;marriage,than happiness.After all being happy is a state of mind.There is an old saying,that goes like so.You never pursue happiness.You be happy in the pursuit.Think about it.IF you going to do it,i think you setting yourself up for failure.You already looking@new life,going through it all again.When you havent got rid of the old one.You ask wat should i do.Give yourself time to get to find your own self.Then do other steps,as you get stronger.Will give you one more old saying.A woman without a man,is like a fish without a bicycle.Gud luck.Stay well%26amp;happy.
if u aint happy, u gotta get out! I'm the same way, i'm not happy in my relationship, but i don't wanna be alone, and in all actuality i'm always alone anyway, but i have a history with this person he knows things about me personal things that i don't wanna have to tell somebody else, or don't know if somebody else will accept, but i am so unhappy i can't continue to live like this, i think i'm just gonna do it, i would probably be happier just being by myself, after i get over the healing process, but that's the hardest part but we just have to be strong, and get it started, the sooner we start the sooner we will bw able to move on and be happy again
Why are you not happy? How long have you been together? Are their kids involved? Lots of Questions. Think long and hard, and get counseling first. A Few points first: If kids involved, it isn't just about you. Finances? Everyone is having hard times. Abusive? Then that is the one thing i say yes to right off the bat. Just bored, counseling. Your under 25, stop listening to your friends who are not married for advice. You made a commitment, and a life long one. Divorce is way to easy today, and so few try to work out their problems anymore.
Before you decide to end your marriage you should try marriage counseling. If you have your mind set and want to venture out on your own you should see a therapist on your own to see what is holding you back. I know it is scary to go on your own but you can do it. I hope this helps. Good luck.
You haven't said why your marriage is failing. I think you should try some marriage books with your husband. If that doesn't work try some counseling.
You are right to be afraid of starting all over. There is a very good chance that a new relationship could be much worse than what you have. If you find one at all.
Wait. Don't do anything until you are sure. If you make a decision right now, you will not be happy with it. When your heart and head agrees on something, then do it then. You also have to do plenty of planning. It will be hard as hell to start over.
CORRECT ME IF I AM WRONG BUT ARENT YOU 21 AND HE 40ISH?? AND DIDNT YOU HAVE A STILLBORN CHILD WHERE HE HAD TO RETURN TO CLASSES HE JUST COULDNT MISS??
YOU WILL HAVE TO DECIDE WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU, GET SUPPORT FROM FRIENDS AND FAMILY AND SEE HOW YOU FEEL IN THE MORNING
If your marriage really is over then give yourself time to live a little, get a hobby. meet new friends, get a job, the right partner is out there and he will come your way, good luck love
Stay weith him. 6s %26amp; 7s. SIXES and SEVENS!!!!!
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