Is there ever a time in your marriage?

Do you think that there is ever a time where it is ok to have an affair. Maybe not ok, but justifiable. What do you think?Is there ever a time in your marriage?
it is never justified!Is there ever a time in your marriage?
I know what your talking about and the answer is still no.
NO... nothing can justify an affair. If you're that unhappy then you need to leave... and if he cheated on you and you're wanting to get back at him for it... well honey 2 wrongs don't make a right.
There is never a time where it is ok or justifiable. However, it can be beneficial, but only in rare cases. Regardless of what you get out of it, it is still technically wrong and will not cease to be wrong no matter how you try to rationalize it.
No there is never a time for that. When you get to thinking like that it is either time to talk and fix the problem or time to move on. It is never fair to treat your partner like that.
I THINK I understand what you are getting at, but the answer is still no.
No. If it comes to that, end the marriage first.
No I don't think so at all. If you are thinking that then some things need to change in the relationship. You are supposed to be committed to that one person even if he does cheat on you does not make it right to cheat on him back. Two cheaters still equals heartbreak and drama! If you want to be with someone else other than your spouse then end the relationship so you both can move on with yalls lives!
Nope never ever ever
By definition, an ';affair'; is something you do behind your partner's back; I don't think it's ever justifiable. It's a whole different ball game when you and your partner agree to have an open relationship, or to separate and see other people - but then, it's not an ';affair'; if it's agreed upon and is out in the open.





It's kind of like asking - is it ever ok to rob someone, is it ever justifiable. The answer is no. There are desperate people in desperate situations who resort to robbery, but while it can be understandable, it doesn't make it justifiable.
NO!


If you want to be with someone else then get a divorce first-don't do it behind someones back.


That is just wrong.


There is only one circumstance that I would find acceptable.and that would be if your husband were totally incapacitated-i.e. in a coma or severe dementia in a home-when there is no hope of recovery.


A lady I know in her 50's has spent the last 10 years alone-her husband in a home with Alzheimer's Disease.


She deserves some companionship and happiness-so yes technically it would be an affair!
never! just use your imagination - then no-one gets hurt.





some woman had an affair with a married man, he died, she couldn't go to his funeral or show her true grief because their relationship had been secretive. She had no-one to talk to about it and it screwed her up.
If you do, just be very discreet.
I dont think it is ever ok or justifiable.
No - Not Ever! My decision to NEVER have an affair is all about me and the person I want to me. It has nothing to do with my spouse. If one is not happy in a relationship, fix it, leave it or live with it. But why be a liar and a cheat? That's not the type of person I want to be.