Is sex before marriage really that bad?

I would hate to get married and never have any other partners. Why do people think that a woman is a sl*t if she doesn't lose her virginity to her husband?Is sex before marriage really that bad?
If it's bad. I'm the poster girl for it.Is sex before marriage really that bad?
What's funny is that godly men from the old testament had lots, and I mean LOTS, of sex outside of marriage and somehow never trespassed god's laws so long as they weren't doing someone else's spouse.





King Solomon for example had hundreds of wives and hundreds of concubines. The concubines are clearly listed as being sexual partners that he was not married too. Yet somehow this was never considered to be in trespass of any of god's laws or decrees.





So, either god turned a blind eye to it, or the bible is confused on the issue. I personally have a hard time believing the fault lie with god.
As long as you are loyal and faithful to your bf or husband, I can't imagine you as a sl*t. Sex before marriage isn't that bad. You can leave a relationship with a broken heart - sex complicates thing. But leaving a marriage is probably worse - marriage complicates divorce.





People have their opinions. Just be save and responsible.
I think no sex before marriage can be really damaging. If you marry a man, have sex with him, and the sex is unsatisfying, then what? Once you buy the cow, you can't get the milk for free! without risking a costly divorce.





Women use abstinence (saving themselves until marriage) as an excuse to fool ';nice guys';. No ';jerk'; or ';bad boy'; would put up with it. What you should do is consider the men you want to date. If you are into the ';jerk';/';bad boy'; type, chances are you will get ';play'; before your wedding day.
No, it was pretty freakin' good, actually. It's still awesome now that we're married.





I will add that my spouse was a virgin when we met; I was not. We did not wait until we were married, but he *was* waiting for a special woman, to make it meaningful. I am the only woman he has ever been with and he does not regret it in the least. : ) I hope that helps you.





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yes, because pre-marital sex is desecrating, profaning our bodies and sex!





Sex is HOLY! Sex is meant to image God's total,faithful,free,and fruitful love, this can only happen in marriage, between a man and a woman, no contraceptives, no abortion, no homsexual relations, etc.!





The truth about sexuality is that it is meant to point us to Christ's marriage to the Church! God bless!
Exactly. I couldn't imagine going into a marriage a virgin. I couldn't imagine a honeymoon not even knowing what you're doing. And always wondering what the outside world would be like, having never really been there, and never being able to find out either.
Sex before marriage is really quite good.





I don't think that a woman is a **** if she isn't a virgin before her marriage. That's archaic thinking.
Yes, it is really that bad, only immoral people do that, it's a sin and all sin is bad, just because you don't believe in Judgment day doesn't mean it's not going to happen.
saying a bad word is a sin. not fallowing your parents is a sin.sex before marriage is a sin. just choose to break the ones you think are most important
Sex doesn't make us less pure - in fact, it completes us.





Besides, you really don't want to marry someone and then find out they still lust after their mommies.
Only if you do it well! And why is a slutty quality in women a virtue in men? Bit of a double standard there.
No one ever thought i was a ****. Times are different now. Me and my husband were not virgins when we got married, and neither of us regret it.
I guess God thinks so since His Word says that no fornicator shall enter the Kingdom of God.
Ummm.... no, it's not.
I've always heard that the sex doesn't start to get bad until *after* marriage.





Not that I'm confirming it.
Becuase it is in the bible you full. True love waits.
It's like opening your wedding gift (from God) before your wedding day!
he he not really but stick to one :)
They don't think that about all women, just you.
No, it's not.
nope
if it was...then god would have stroke us all
Biblically it's the definition of marriage. If you want other partners at the same time, that would make you a whore.