lives in another country and visits home.? Could you live with him if he refuses to understand how lonely it it for you? Could you live in a marriage where your husband ?
Yes if I love him I would do itCould you live in a marriage where your husband ?
I'm assuming you mean should you live with your husband if he refuses to understand how lonely it is for you. This arrangement must have been agreed upon before he started traveling. You need to develop a broader circle of friends you can call on when your feeling especially lonely. A hobby that really makes you concentrate on the moment is also a good remedy for loneliness. Of course you should continue to live with him if you love him. Just make better use of your ';down'; time and try to enjoy your independance. This kind of relationship is hard but can be very rewarding. I mean for the time he's away and of course the time he is home.
Is this how your marriage started, did you know this was going to happen before you got married to the man? If you did, you didn't think the marriage through before you did it. What do you want from the marriage and are you getting it? You are the one who has to live with this arangement so no matter what I say or someone else says, it will be you that has to decide what to do about it and you that has to live with the consequences of those actions. I suggest you talk to him about the way you feel and see if there is something that can be worked out to both your satisfactions. If it can't be worked out, then you decide what you want for your life and do it.
yes it could be having the best of both worlds,my independence when he is away and my security when he is home,why not take up a hobby,or join a night school class
Sorry No I couldn't ,could you move to the other country to be closer?
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